Are you a feminized man?

What is feminized behavior in a man? It’s often misunderstood to mean “feminINE” behavior but there’s a distinct difference. I’d define feminized behavior as “any thought, word or action implemented by a man in a style usually displayed only by a woman”. A deeper definition might be any behavior or thought process that has it’s ROOTS in feminine type motivation. Below is a list contributed by Some common behaviors today are “apologizing” for who we are as men, arguing or competing with our women, being needy, and compromising yourself to please others. So have a good laugh, don’t take yourself too seriously: Light a cigar, grab a hustler, give the boys a good scratch, settle down into your “Lazy Bastard” and let’s read!

You may be feminized if . . .
(collected wisdom from many men – send us more)

  • You think learning an arcane language just to order a damn cup of coffee is engaging
    (auto parts, stereos, computers, are ok!)
  • Your wife or girlfriend has ever said ‘whatever happened to the man I met??’
  • You think that you’re not feminized
  • You find yourself thinking ‘maybe she’s right’
  • You argue with your woman
  • You ‘win’ that argument
  • You struggle with decisions or other people
  • You ever said ‘I know this is politically incorrect but’
  • You feel you have to take someone on
  • You answer the phone every time it rings
  • You don’t have a place on this planet (a den, cave, sanctum sanctorum) that is absolute, inviolate, and your own, and she knows it and honors it
  • You want sex more than she wants it
  • You don’t trust your woman or she doesn’t trust you
  • You find this web site exasperating or disgusting
  • You feel that
  • You understand women
  • You’re afraid of being taken advantage of
  • You have trouble listening
  • You do things that trouble you to please others
  • You have a chip on your shoulder about certain things
  • You think men should unite and stand up for their rights
  • You think you should discuss your feelings with your woman
  • You ever said ‘a real man would’
  • You find yourself defending yourself
  • Your words say more than your actions
  • You reveal more by what you say than by what you don’t say
  • You answer yes/no questions with something other than yes or no
  • You live alone and have more than 1 bottle (unscented) in the shower
  • You live with a woman and have any bottles in the shower
  • You don’t cooperate with your woman
  • People wonder where you stand as a man
  • You try to ‘help’ a relationship
  • You need to buy cologne more than once every two years
  • Your best friend is a woman
  • You blanch at the thought of cleaning a fish
  • You think men are violent
  • You think certain occupations or livelihoods are better than others
  • The work you do for money is a major part of your identity
  • You try to fix your woman’s problems or give her advice
  • You have guilt or shame you can’t do anything about
  • Voice mail systems cut you off before you finish recording your message
  • You have only a few (or no) male friends
  • You can’t or won’t help people you don’t like
  • You feel uncomfortable eating in a parking lot
  • You spend 1 minute or more in front of the mirror exclusive of shaving in the morning
  • If you have a comb at all, it gets used more than twice a day
  • You socks always match
  • If you think ritalin should be used more widely
  • If you think your balls are all the masculine credentials you need or want
  • You experience very much doubt or indecision
  • You bust butt to save a few bucks – instead of just earning more
  • You always stifle belches and farts
  • You enjoy shopping rather than surgical mall strike missions
  • Your negotiations in business are a zero sum game
  • You’d be unable to horse doctor a person or an animal to prevent worse injury
  • There is nothing you would die to protect, including 1 or 2 of your own ideals
  • You’re unable to live up to principles
  • You try to hold others to
  • You try to give your woman what she says will make her happy
  • On important matters, you get advice from lots of people
  • You ignore advice that you paid for
  • You try to hold anyone other than yourself accountable
  • You have great, intimate conversations with women who you don’t intend to take home
  • You wonder what you should do if a woman is abusive to you
  • Your own needs go unsatisfied because you are thinking of others
  • You feel you communicate well verbally with women
  • If you think women, more than men, are a force for good in our society
  • You recoil at the thought of being called a jerk
  • If you don’t know the difference between a fuel injector and a muzzle brake

Incidentally, there’s nothing wrong with feminized behavior. As men however, feminized behavior that we are unaware of hurts us and hurts those around us. It moves us away from our power. Choiceful feminine behavior can serve us – I heard a man once say that leadership is feminine, and after some thought, I agree. Feminine behavior out of unawareness or ignorance is way ‘unhelpful’ for a man.

Most men and most women have learned feminine roles thoroughly. Women do engage in a lot of masculine practices. Women don’t seem to have any problem integrating both roles without thought.
But men who don’t learn masculine behaviors thoroughly (and these are not taught in school) and who engage unthinking in feminine behavior are but pale shadows of who they could be as men. Current society and culture elevates feminine roles and values and deliberately diminishes masculine roles and values. Young people educated in today’s society are clueless about masculine behaviors. Boys must learn how to become men before they can start to become fully vitalized human beings.

This article posted by permission of author Ron Robinson from his website

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To janeen

The world is changing and nothing short of revolution or civil war will cleanse it

We either suffer through or go along with it to survive

Fighting it always draws attention to yourself and then your freedom is gone anyway

I pray for Jenner who just had the inner strength to put down her male for good not feministically, but to be who she really wants to be to shake off the past others want to remember and she wants to forget. I hope the rest of her life will be enjoyable and people will accept her . I wish I had the nerve to do what she had done


Ok so I've been feminized but she refuses to take it any farther than humiliation when she's drunk yes I wear panties in secret but inwardly I yearn to be a woman and do the things women do. I struggle daily with wanting to both cross dress and transgender but there is no one to help. Oh that a rich single woman would spirit me away and make me her personal girl project


The personality is being feminized while they still hold their male bodies. They have been brainwashed through political correctness and the media. Real men of this world need to rise up and take their countries back on mass but they are not doing it. Have they been brow beaten? I'm surprised they are not even assassinating these leaders and those that lie behind the feminization of them. The only 2 real men (World leaders) I see left in this world (If there be more, I don't yet know of them) are Vladimir Putin of Russia and Viktor Orban of Hungary. Come on real men of this world Rise up and take your countries back! United we stand or divided we fall! Wake up!


Feminization of man means  the process  by which man acquires  woman's features, like soft  and hair less body,breasts,hips etc and prepared to take up the role of a woman, like attending house hold work.

Female hormones when  given to any man for a considerable period, get the above results, in case exceeded in dosage or period, he may find it difficult to continue as man, he may prefer to undergo surgery and become a woman.